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A Guide to Senior Living and Care for People With Obesity

Published: December 4, 2023
Reviewed by: Deidre Sommerer, LPN, MS, CMC, CDP

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Seniors go through many physical changes as they age. Some of these, such as the loss of muscle mass, make it difficult to maintain a healthy weight. This can lead to weight gain and a diagnosis of obesity, a medical condition that affects 41.5% of adults aged 60 and older in the United States. It is critical for these seniors to take steps to reduce their weight and protect their health, finances, and mental wellbeing.

Obesity can increase the risk of developing other serious medical conditions such as high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, osteoarthritis, coronary artery disease and cancer. The costs of inpatient and outpatient care and prescription drugs are also higher for seniors who are overweight or with obesity compared to seniors who are considered average or underweight. Unfortunately, seniors with obesity also face weight bias when they go to the doctor, attend community events and engage in other activities and become the target of stereotypes, negative attitudes, judgments and discrimination.

This guide explains how moving to a senior living community may offer several benefits to older adults with obesity. In addition, it includes tips for advocating on behalf of seniors with this medical condition. A list of senior communities that offer helpful programs for seniors with obesity and various resources with information about nutrition and physical fitness are also provided.

Benefits of Senior Living for People With Obesity

Seniors who don’t drive and have a hard time getting transportation to local stores may rely on frozen dinners and other convenience foods, making it difficult to control their caloric intake. Arthritis, muscle weakness and other health conditions may also make it difficult to shop for ingredients and prepare nutritious meals, contributing to obesity and other health problems.

In addition to this, poor balance, muscle weakness and other physical issues associated with aging may make older adults with obesity avoid exercise out of fear that they’ll sustain an injury. Further, those living with obesity who remain inactive are more likely to lose their mobility. In fact, the chances of developing a walking disability have been shown to go up with increases in body weight and are highest among people with obesity who are the least physically active. Seniors with disabilities may be unable to exercise for more than a few minutes at a time, making it a challenge to improve their physical fitness without some form of assistance.

Fortunately, senior living may provide a solution to these problems. Below are just a few of the weight-related benefits of moving to a senior living community:

  • Meal plans: Many communities offer meal plans that can be customized according to your nutritional needs. If you’re trying to lose weight or avoid weight gain, you may also be able to ask dining services staff to prepare low-calorie meals or omit certain ingredients from each dish.
  • Social connection: If you live alone, it can be difficult to stay motivated when it comes to exercising or following a diet. Senior living communities provide opportunities to make new friends, giving you access to people who can serve as accountability partners as you work to lose weight. It’s also safer to exercise if you have a friend nearby.
  • Planned activities: Senior living communities typically have many activities planned each week, giving residents more opportunities to move around. Your local community may even offer fitness programs, cooking classes and other activities to help you better understand what you should eat and how much activity you need.
  • On-site rehabilitation: Some communities offer on-site physical therapy. If an injury or chronic medical condition has been preventing you from exercising, a physical therapist can help you regain strength and improve your physical functioning. As you recover, you may find it easier to exercise, leading to weight loss.
  • Health monitoring: If you’re trying to lose weight, it’s important to track your progress over time to make sure what you’re doing is working. Many communities offer on-site health monitoring, which may include weigh-ins, blood pressure checks and glucose monitoring. These services make it easier to determine if you need to tweak your approach to losing weight and maintaining health.

How Caregivers Can Advocate for Seniors Living With Obesity

All seniors deserve respect, but people with obesity may be discriminated against every day due to their weight. Sadly, this discrimination even occurs in health care settings, leading to subpar care and poor outcomes for many patients. Follow the tips below to advocate on behalf of your older loved one.

  • Recognize obesity as a disease: When you talk to or about your loved one, use person-first language. They’re not an obese person; they’re a person with obesity. It’s important to recognize obesity as a disease rather than a lack of willpower. Make sure that personal care aides, neighbors and anyone else who has contact with your loved one is aware of the distinction.
  • Fight against weight bias: If you attend medical appointments with your loved one, pay attention for signs of weight bias. A health care professional with weight bias may ignore complaints about pain and other symptoms, claiming that they’re the result of laziness or overindulgence instead of listening carefully and ordering appropriate tests. Listen for words like “lazy” and “noncompliant,” as they may indicate that a provider isn’t taking your loved one seriously due to their obesity.
  • Switch providers: Don’t be afraid to find a new doctor, dietitian, nurse practitioner or other health care professional if someone displays weight bias toward your loved one. If the discrimination is severe, consider filing a report with the provider’s licensing body.
  • Make accommodations: Your loved one may find it difficult to enjoy certain activities due to their weight. For example, many performing arts venues have narrow seats, causing discomfort. To make it easier for your loved one to get out and enjoy life, make accommodations whenever possible. You may need to ask for accessible seating, bring a cushion to increase their comfort or rent a wheelchair to ensure your loved one can enjoy the activity.
  • Avoid nagging: It’s not easy to stick to a healthy eating plan or make time for exercise most days of the week. If you want to have a conversation about your loved one’s meals or exercise habits, avoid nagging. Discuss the issue in a nonjudgmental tone.
  • Offer to help: Encourage good nutrition by offering to shop for healthy ingredients, purchase a low-calorie cookbook or invest in tools designed to make cooking easier for older adults. The Mayo Clinic also has recipes online that are designed for special diets, including weight management. You can use these or other healthy recipes to make and freeze meals for when your loved one doesn’t feel well or have the energy to cook.
  • Join forces: To encourage your loved one to exercise, look for ways to incorporate physical activity into your routine. For example, if you normally spend the afternoon watching television together, suggest that you go for a short walk instead. If they’re able to leave the house, try walking around a local shopping mall or enrolling in a low-impact exercise class that you can take part in together.

What To Look For in a Senior Living Community for Someone With Obesity

If you want to lose weight and live a healthier life, it’s important to find a senior living community that offers nutritious meals as well as physical fitness programs. The checklist below explains what you should look for when selecting a senior living community.

Senior Living Facilities That Offer Obesity Management and Care

Many senior living communities have dining services and fitness programs that make it easier for residents to lose weight and prevent chronic health problems. The table below lists some of these facilities and explains the services they offer that help seniors with obesity.

Community Location Description
Blue Ridge Assisted Living and Memory Care


Blue Ridge, GA Blue Ridge Assisted Living and Memory Care offers chef-prepared meals designed to meet the nutritional needs of each resident. Meal plans can be customized to limit ingredients such as sodium or increase intake of specific nutrients. The community also offers exercise programs and walking trips to help residents lose weight or maintain a healthy weight.
Buckner Calder Woods Beaumont, TX Calder Woods offers nutritional counseling and its chefs adjust menus for residents who have weight loss or other nutritional goals. Residents also have access to physical therapy and social activities that can help them get more exercise.
Clarendale at Indian Lake Hendersonville, TN Clarendale at Indian Lake has a Health & Wellness Navigation Program focusing on eight dimensions of wellness. One of those dimensions is physical wellness, which emphasizes good nutrition and regular physical activity.
Clermont Park Denver, CO Clermont Park has multiple dining options, giving seniors the opportunity to choose nutritious foods that help them meet their individual needs. The community also has state-of-the-art fitness equipment to help residents stay active.
Friendship Village of Bloomington Bloomington, MN At Friendship Village of Bloomington, residents can participate in a wellness review to set individual goals for nutrition, physical activity and other aspects of their well-being. The community also has a fitness center and indoor pool as well as multiple dining options, giving residents access to a variety of nutritious foods.
Heritage Springs Assisted Living and Memory Care Las Vegas, NV Heritage Springs offers the EverFit program, which is designed to help seniors stay active no matter their fitness level. Residents have access to strength and balance classes, walking programs, aquatic fitness activities and more to keep them moving. Heritage Springs also offers healthy meals tailored to residents’ dietary needs.
Hidden Meadows On the Ridge Sellersville, PA Hidden Meadows features the Sensations dining room, which offers a diverse selection of meals to suit residents’ personal preferences and nutritional needs. The Dimensions Health & Fitness program also gives residents access to an on-site fitness center and instructor-led fitness activities.
Lakeside At Mallard Landing Salisbury, MD Part of the same group that owns Hidden Meadows on the Ridge, Lakeside at Mallard Landing offers the Sensations dining and the Dimensions Health & Fitness programs. Residents have the opportunity to participate in a variety of fitness activities and enjoy meals planned to accommodate their personal nutrition needs.
Magnolia Springs Southpointe Indianapolis, IN Magnolia Springs has a Health & Wellness Navigation team that aims to help residents overcome health-related challenges. The community also offers restaurant-style dining, with meals that can be tailored to each resident’s dietary needs.
Pickersgill Retirement Community Towson, MD Pickersgill Retirement Community gives residents direct input when it comes to menu planning, ensuring the availability of healthy foods and beverages. Other wellness programs offered to promote a healthy lifestyle include a Weight Watchers group, nutritional education sessions and on-site exercise classes.
Sierra Winds Peoria, AZ The staff at Sierra Winds takes a holistic approach to wellness, offering programs and activities to help residents improve their physical, emotional and mental well-being. Exercise classes, walking paths, an on-site fitness center and meals prepared with fresh ingredients all promote the well-being of Sierra Winds residents.
The Montebello on Academy Albuquerque, NM The Montebello on Academy, a Five Star Senior Living community, offers flavorful meals designed to maximize each resident’s health. Dining staff are happy to accommodate special dietary needs and accept feedback on menu items. The community also offers fitness classes and other programs to help residents stay healthy.
The Summit Hockessin, DE The Summit offers gourmet meals that can be customized according to each resident’s dietary needs. Residents also have access to walking paths and a fitness center with senior-friendly equipment to help them keep their bodies moving.
Tribute Senior Living Prosper, TX Tribute Senior Living offers the Mark V menu, which emphasizes meals made with organic, anti-inflammatory ingredients. Residents also have access to Tribute Fit, which features a walking program, exercise classes and personalized fitness plans.
Varenita of Simi Valley Simi Valley, CA Varenita of Simi Valley offers group exercise classes, personal training and other fitness programs to help residents stay active. The dining program features chef-inspired meals made with ingredients sourced from local farms, making it easier for residents to control their caloric intake and get the nutrients they need.

For more information about choosing a senior living community for an older adult with obesity, contact a family advisor at (888) 307-1103.

Resources for Seniors Struggling With Obesity and Their Caregivers

Losing weight is a little easier when older adults are armed with accurate information about fitness and nutrition. The table below lists several resources that can help seniors and their caregivers prepare nutritious meals, exercise safely and learn more about the health risks of obesity.

Resource Contact Information Description
Meals on Wheels Use the online directory to find a local provider. Meals on Wheels is a network of organizations that deliver nutritious meals to seniors throughout the United States. Many participating organizations offer menu plans for participants who want to lose weight or need to limit their intake of certain ingredients.
SilverSneakers (866) 584-7389 SilverSneakers offers senior-friendly fitness programming at gyms and health care centers throughout the United States. Seniors also have access to live online classes and on-demand video workouts. Some Medicare Advantage plans cover the cost of the programs offered by SilverSneakers.
USDA MyPlate [email protected] MyPlate offers tools and resources to help users plan well-balanced meals. It also provides information about the five major food groups and their recommended serving sizes.
USDA FoodData Central Submit this form for answers to questions. FoodData Central is a searchable database containing thousands of foods, making it easier to plan healthy meals. For each food, the database displays the calorie count (note that 1 calorie = 1 kcal of energy) for the selected serving size, along with a complete nutritional profile.
MOVE! Weight Management Program Contact your closest VA facility to inquire about program availability The National Center for Health Promotion and Disease Prevention supports the MOVE! program. Based on the Diabetes Prevention Program, MOVE! helps veterans receiving VA care make lifestyle changes to lose weight as well as learn skills to manage chronic conditions. 
Dietary Guidelines for Americans [email protected] The USDA issues dietary guidelines to help people of all ages understand their nutritional needs. The current Dietary Guidelines for Americans, 2020-2025 document has a section dedicated to the nutritional needs of older adults, making it easier for seniors to know what they should be eating.
Choosing a Safe and Successful Weight Loss Program (800) 860-8747 The National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases explains how to choose a safe weight-loss program.
Strength Training for Older Adults (617) 636-3737 The CDC and Tufts University offer a 112-page book to help seniors get started with strength training. It includes an equipment checklist, a glossary of fitness-related terms and illustrations to help readers perform each exercise safely.
Paul Eugene Fitness Visit the Paul Eugene Fitness website for more information. Paul Eugene Fitness has a YouTube channel filled with exercise videos designed for seniors and younger adults with limited mobility. Eugene has more than 30 years of experience teaching fitness classes, and he also hosts and produces a fitness show on PCTV21 in Pittsburgh.
National Heart, Lung and Blood Institute (877) 645-2448 The NHLBI offers information on obesity and its health risks. The website also has sample menu plans, a BMI calculator and other tools to help users plan nutritious meals and manage their weight.
American Diabetes Association (800) 342-2383 The American Diabetes Association offers recipes and other tools to help people with diabetes manage their weight and keep their glucose levels within a healthy range.